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Tender to the touch!
Like a fury of fire!
And in the end it's the satisfaction of knowing
A true Bottom Warming Experience was shared
by two Consenting Adults!
Happy Spankings to you and yours!!!!!
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Monday, March 5, 2012
The Tender, and not so Tender
The Tender, and not so Tender side of a naughty back side!
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Spanked all nice and red!
Swollen and a sore!
The Tender, and not so Tender side of a good HARD SPANKING!
And in the end it's the satisfaction of knowing
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The Tender, and not so Tender... It's Just our way of having fun!
Happy Spankings to you and yours!!!!!
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And in the end it's the satisfaction of knowing
Happy Spankings to you and yours!!!!!
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Sunday, March 4, 2012
Political Rant and Women's Health Ed moment
Hey Team,
I try to avoid talking politics on here despite the fact that it is a very big and important part of my life because I personally know that MANY people in this community hold WIDELY divergent views and any discussion of politics on the internet goes to shit beyond quickly.
However, I have been needing to say something for a few days, and it just came up again on the show I am watching and I can no longer contain myself. I will keep it as short and direct as I can or else I am confident I will start a hell storm. But the main thing I want to get across here is actually educational to men who might not understand how women's contraception works, because from what I have been hearing out of both male politicians and political commentators, men don't seem to have a fucking clue how it works!!!
Please also remember that I am a woman (duh), but more specifically a non-Catholic Georgetown University woman. I suppose I have said once before in passing that I graduated from Georgetown, but I certainly haven't posted it in words before. But yes, I went to Georgetown, which is now in the middle of this ABSURD debate we are having in this country over contraception, and I am not a Catholic, which is kinda crucial to the point of my story/post.
First of all, I took hormonal birth control from age 17-21 and had sex once, at age 20. I took the pill for PMDD. I have since stopped taking it, because issues of health insurance refusing to cover brand vs generic despite my doctor's request, had led to major health issues for me when the generic does not control the amount of hormone as tightly as brand, and then the generic was actually recalled from the market. So yeah, I fucking hate the American health insurance system (but that isn't a debate I am going to have here).
Georgetown U prides itself on having people of all and of no faith at their school. They make a really big fucking deal about it actually. And Georgetown has a public hospital. Gtown also has a student clinic, which is honestly the only place anywhere near campus for health care (students aren't allowed cars on campus and you don't want to walk too far in DC). I loved the clinic. It had great care. And Gtown has its own health insurance that it offers to its students. The clinic only takes Gtown health insurance. So basically you have to buy it. I had both Gtown health insurance (which doesn't cover the pill) and my parents (which thankfully did). Now, not only did it not cover the pill which I took as a virgin for 3 years, but I had to get it prescribed in Dallas by my home doctor, and the hospital pharmacy wouldn't fill it. So I had to go off campus to find a pharmacy to fill it. It cost me $60 a month. Every month.
So here is the women's health lesson. The reason all of this is coming up, is because Rush Limbaugh called the gtown student who stood up for women at this insitution, a slut. Used the word slut. He said she should post videos of her having sex on the internet if she wanted us to pay for it, and that her parents should be ashamed of her. He did this for three days. So it's not like it was taken out of context, or he misspoke. He did it for three days.
I have never been so angry in my entire life than when I watched that show of his.
His big points were three fold. First that it costs so much because these women must just be having so much sex. Second, that she was asking for public funding for her birth control. Both of those points are FACTUALLY INACCURATE!!! And third, that a woman that wants to have sex is a slut.
1. Unlike condoms which you buy without a prescription (the pill can kill you so yes it needs to be a prescription) and use per sexual encounter, the pill is taken once a day, everyday for a month REGARDLESS OF HOW MUCH SEX YOU ARE HAVING OR NOT HAVING. If you have sex once or if you have sex 300 times, the cost is the EXACT SAME. And once you take the pill during the month, you can't stop, even if you don't have sex, or it will totally fuck you up hormonally.
2. She wants Georgetown University which is Catholic but prides itself on having non Catholic students and employees and psudeo makes you buy its health insurance which is paid for in large part by our own astronomically high tuition to pay for her Pill. NOT THE PUBLIC. No one said a DAMN THING about the public paying for anything! Health insurance should cover things that have to do with your health. Hormonal birth control is about a woman's health.
Now, I am going to just bullet point the rest of this or I will explode.
I try to avoid talking politics on here despite the fact that it is a very big and important part of my life because I personally know that MANY people in this community hold WIDELY divergent views and any discussion of politics on the internet goes to shit beyond quickly.
However, I have been needing to say something for a few days, and it just came up again on the show I am watching and I can no longer contain myself. I will keep it as short and direct as I can or else I am confident I will start a hell storm. But the main thing I want to get across here is actually educational to men who might not understand how women's contraception works, because from what I have been hearing out of both male politicians and political commentators, men don't seem to have a fucking clue how it works!!!
Please also remember that I am a woman (duh), but more specifically a non-Catholic Georgetown University woman. I suppose I have said once before in passing that I graduated from Georgetown, but I certainly haven't posted it in words before. But yes, I went to Georgetown, which is now in the middle of this ABSURD debate we are having in this country over contraception, and I am not a Catholic, which is kinda crucial to the point of my story/post.
First of all, I took hormonal birth control from age 17-21 and had sex once, at age 20. I took the pill for PMDD. I have since stopped taking it, because issues of health insurance refusing to cover brand vs generic despite my doctor's request, had led to major health issues for me when the generic does not control the amount of hormone as tightly as brand, and then the generic was actually recalled from the market. So yeah, I fucking hate the American health insurance system (but that isn't a debate I am going to have here).
Georgetown U prides itself on having people of all and of no faith at their school. They make a really big fucking deal about it actually. And Georgetown has a public hospital. Gtown also has a student clinic, which is honestly the only place anywhere near campus for health care (students aren't allowed cars on campus and you don't want to walk too far in DC). I loved the clinic. It had great care. And Gtown has its own health insurance that it offers to its students. The clinic only takes Gtown health insurance. So basically you have to buy it. I had both Gtown health insurance (which doesn't cover the pill) and my parents (which thankfully did). Now, not only did it not cover the pill which I took as a virgin for 3 years, but I had to get it prescribed in Dallas by my home doctor, and the hospital pharmacy wouldn't fill it. So I had to go off campus to find a pharmacy to fill it. It cost me $60 a month. Every month.
So here is the women's health lesson. The reason all of this is coming up, is because Rush Limbaugh called the gtown student who stood up for women at this insitution, a slut. Used the word slut. He said she should post videos of her having sex on the internet if she wanted us to pay for it, and that her parents should be ashamed of her. He did this for three days. So it's not like it was taken out of context, or he misspoke. He did it for three days.
I have never been so angry in my entire life than when I watched that show of his.
His big points were three fold. First that it costs so much because these women must just be having so much sex. Second, that she was asking for public funding for her birth control. Both of those points are FACTUALLY INACCURATE!!! And third, that a woman that wants to have sex is a slut.
1. Unlike condoms which you buy without a prescription (the pill can kill you so yes it needs to be a prescription) and use per sexual encounter, the pill is taken once a day, everyday for a month REGARDLESS OF HOW MUCH SEX YOU ARE HAVING OR NOT HAVING. If you have sex once or if you have sex 300 times, the cost is the EXACT SAME. And once you take the pill during the month, you can't stop, even if you don't have sex, or it will totally fuck you up hormonally.
2. She wants Georgetown University which is Catholic but prides itself on having non Catholic students and employees and psudeo makes you buy its health insurance which is paid for in large part by our own astronomically high tuition to pay for her Pill. NOT THE PUBLIC. No one said a DAMN THING about the public paying for anything! Health insurance should cover things that have to do with your health. Hormonal birth control is about a woman's health.
Now, I am going to just bullet point the rest of this or I will explode.
- A woman who wants to have sex should not be looked down on! She is not a slut for having a healthy sexual appetite! In our society a man is a stud and a woman is a virgin or a whore. THAT IS FUCKED UP!
- I don't care if the aspirin between the knees thing is just an old joke, it is INCREDIBLY OFFENSIVE. I am not easily offended, and I was floored by that comment, and the fact that people are justifying it, and keep saying it!!!
- I was raised in an abstinence only sex ed environment and it totally fucked me up. The idea that your virginity is a gift, and after that your are dirty and used. No one showed me a condom or told me how to use it. I learned that on my own
- Contraception is not about abortion. And if you Really are pro-life and not just anti-sex, then the best way to reduce the number of abortions is to reduce the number of unwanted pregnancies. DUH
- This whole thing is in many ways about chauvinism and misogyny. A woman deserves the right to control her own body and to decide when she gets pregnant. If a woman isn't on the pill, it is up to the man to do the whole condom thing. And yeah, most men are going to put it on bc hey, they're not looking to father a child, but at the same time, he could poke holes in it, or put it on wrong, or convince the girl that he can just pull out. And when you went through abstinence only sex ed, let me tell you, many girls, don't know better. Oh, yeah, and then there's rape. Taking away the pill is taking away women's power. And that IS what these men want.
- The biggest advance in women's liberty in the history of the world was the creation of the Pill. PERIOD.
- Anyone who says they are for small government and yet wants to regulate (or even judge for that fucking matter) my sex life is LYING. Or they just want the government to be so small that its like a tiny submarine that can go inside my vagina??? Yeah, exactly. FUCK THAT.
- IT IS NOT THE GOVERNMENT'S PLACE TO EVER REGULATE A CONSENTING SEX LIFE OR MORALITY.
Exhale. So, Rush Limbaugh, as a Georgetown woman, who you said you would buy all the aspirin I needed to put between my knees, let me just say, please take those pills and choke on them you disgusting, misogynistic pig.
xoxo
Princess Kelley
Saturday, March 3, 2012
Friday, March 2, 2012
Video - Every Other day!
May your bottom always be glowing
!Happy TGIF...............
Spankings
...It's Just our way of having fun!
Happy Spankings to you and yours!!!!!
Pink Bondage Tape
Hey Team,
So I haven't discussed as much as I have been meaning to my new foray into the BDSM scene here. It is to be clear a very small foray, but hey, I'm still branching out! lol. So one thing that I have always enjoyed but not gotten to do much of is light bondage. I am not a person who has any desire to be wrapped in saran wrap or tied up all in rope and suspended from the ceiling. (Saw both of those things actually at the dungeon. The former was just really really weird in my opinion. I had seen it in videos before (I love tickling and for some reason they have a big time overlap that I don't quite understand) but in person it just kinda reminded me of one of those gigantic spiders from Lord of the Rings or Harry Potter. And the latter was certainly more appealing looking, but I just thought it looked like kinda fun. Didn't really see the erotic component to it. Just looked like a really fancy swing as he pushed her around on it.)
Anyway, so intense bondage isn't my thing. But I have always been intrigued as most spanko types probably have, by light bondage. I had a small collection of handcuffs when I was younger (that and sex dice were my two adult collections) that I really loved: plastic, a few metal ones, fuzzy ones (gift from Michael, lol), and an amazing Japanese rope one that was a birthday gift from Francesca one year), but my metal allergy has really gotten in the way of doing much. I have done things with silk ties and a tiny bit with rope, but I wanted something that was less work honestly, but didn't have the metal. The leather cuffs are nice, but even the ones that don't have stupid metal studs all over them, still have metal hooks that touch through to the skin. I really really really want to get a spreader bar at some point... still have not found one of those without metal...
So I was with Paul at VerLes, which is the kink store that I might have mentioned (hopefully have mentioned) that I recently discovered in Dallas and where I met the sadist guy, Daddy_o.... who is kinda now my new lover?... anywho. So we were there talking with Daddy_O (I am going to have to get him to pick a new name for the blog... his scene name is way too confusing for me) and looking through the store, and he recommended bondage tape. Now I was super skeptical. I am not hardcore. I have NO desire to have actual tape used on me in any way. But it really isn't sticky. Its kinda like really thick saran wrap actually- sticks to itself but nothing else. So I bought a roll. In pink. :)
My verdict: I love that it's easy to use. I love that it is reusable (though my OCD hates unfolding it and making it perfect again which is totally unnecessary for use but necessary for my sanity). I like that it's pink. I love that it works for bondage and I am not allergic to it! :) And I love that its way easier and cheaper than rope.
I don't love the "intruder/rape" aspect to it though. Some people I know love that and are really into it, but I am not one of those people. I dislike that it reminds me of duct tape in that way. I love forced orgasms and I really like the animalistic 'must have you now' element of forced scenes, and I honestly like scenes that involve strangers. But those scenes always involve someone I know and love in charge and like giving me out to be used by others. I don't know if I think that doing "rape" scenes makes light of something that is a huge and real issue, or if I just don't like the word, or what. But I get frustrated when people say that they want to do play rape. There is no such thing. There is consensual non consent, and there are rough scenes, and there is role play, and there are those moments when someone wants you so much they take you right then. But it's not rape. And rape is not a joke.
Ok, got distracted there for a minute, sorry! Lol. Getting off my soap box, had no intention of being on it this time. So bondage tape. I am a fan for the functionality, not a fan of the "impression." But we aren't playing with it the same way many would be, and so for me, it is just like rope or handcuffs, and it's a really fun way to be bound, spread eagle on a bed, blindfolded, helpless to whatever he wants to do. :)
I got pictures by the way *wink*
So I haven't discussed as much as I have been meaning to my new foray into the BDSM scene here. It is to be clear a very small foray, but hey, I'm still branching out! lol. So one thing that I have always enjoyed but not gotten to do much of is light bondage. I am not a person who has any desire to be wrapped in saran wrap or tied up all in rope and suspended from the ceiling. (Saw both of those things actually at the dungeon. The former was just really really weird in my opinion. I had seen it in videos before (I love tickling and for some reason they have a big time overlap that I don't quite understand) but in person it just kinda reminded me of one of those gigantic spiders from Lord of the Rings or Harry Potter. And the latter was certainly more appealing looking, but I just thought it looked like kinda fun. Didn't really see the erotic component to it. Just looked like a really fancy swing as he pushed her around on it.)
Anyway, so intense bondage isn't my thing. But I have always been intrigued as most spanko types probably have, by light bondage. I had a small collection of handcuffs when I was younger (that and sex dice were my two adult collections) that I really loved: plastic, a few metal ones, fuzzy ones (gift from Michael, lol), and an amazing Japanese rope one that was a birthday gift from Francesca one year), but my metal allergy has really gotten in the way of doing much. I have done things with silk ties and a tiny bit with rope, but I wanted something that was less work honestly, but didn't have the metal. The leather cuffs are nice, but even the ones that don't have stupid metal studs all over them, still have metal hooks that touch through to the skin. I really really really want to get a spreader bar at some point... still have not found one of those without metal...
So I was with Paul at VerLes, which is the kink store that I might have mentioned (hopefully have mentioned) that I recently discovered in Dallas and where I met the sadist guy, Daddy_o.... who is kinda now my new lover?... anywho. So we were there talking with Daddy_O (I am going to have to get him to pick a new name for the blog... his scene name is way too confusing for me) and looking through the store, and he recommended bondage tape. Now I was super skeptical. I am not hardcore. I have NO desire to have actual tape used on me in any way. But it really isn't sticky. Its kinda like really thick saran wrap actually- sticks to itself but nothing else. So I bought a roll. In pink. :)
My verdict: I love that it's easy to use. I love that it is reusable (though my OCD hates unfolding it and making it perfect again which is totally unnecessary for use but necessary for my sanity). I like that it's pink. I love that it works for bondage and I am not allergic to it! :) And I love that its way easier and cheaper than rope.
I don't love the "intruder/rape" aspect to it though. Some people I know love that and are really into it, but I am not one of those people. I dislike that it reminds me of duct tape in that way. I love forced orgasms and I really like the animalistic 'must have you now' element of forced scenes, and I honestly like scenes that involve strangers. But those scenes always involve someone I know and love in charge and like giving me out to be used by others. I don't know if I think that doing "rape" scenes makes light of something that is a huge and real issue, or if I just don't like the word, or what. But I get frustrated when people say that they want to do play rape. There is no such thing. There is consensual non consent, and there are rough scenes, and there is role play, and there are those moments when someone wants you so much they take you right then. But it's not rape. And rape is not a joke.
Ok, got distracted there for a minute, sorry! Lol. Getting off my soap box, had no intention of being on it this time. So bondage tape. I am a fan for the functionality, not a fan of the "impression." But we aren't playing with it the same way many would be, and so for me, it is just like rope or handcuffs, and it's a really fun way to be bound, spread eagle on a bed, blindfolded, helpless to whatever he wants to do. :)
I got pictures by the way *wink*
xoxo
Princess Kelley
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