YOU MIGHT BE JUST WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR

Without hesitation, I created my ad. I posted it in the CASUAL ENCOUNTERS SECTION.

I wish, really wish, that I had a copy of my original posting. I included the following details in a much more articulate paragraph or two.

- Married, with kids
- Had no intention in leaving my marriage
- My marriage was great, we just have different sex drives (okay, so the great part was a lie)
- I know for a fact that I put my pants size in there, and was upfront that I wasn't skinny
- I said what I was looking for...discreet meetings, etc.
- I said I was willing and able to split any expenses incurred
- I said that I was looking for someone with kids...I wanted to be on the same page

I put little thought into it, just said what I wanted and needed. And with a few clicks, my ad was posted.

I got replies within minutes. I watched them come into my inbox...and would open them, and delete them. Nothing looked good. Cock shots. Spelling errors. Some were too crude. Some were decent, but I didn't get a good vibe.

About an hour into this, I got an email that sounded familiar. The writing style, the story. I kept reading, suspecting that it was Codey. It had to be! The only difference was that he said he was 40, and had one child. I replied and told him that it was me, and that he should quit lying about things like his age and whether or not he had kids. He responded saying he had suspected it was me from the writing style, and he thought it was SO FUNNY that it was. Whatever.

I had posted the add early to mid afternoon that day, and the replies continues to trickle in. I hadn't replied to anyone besides Codey, until a guy sent me a picture of himself holding a child. It pissed me off. I hadn't even talked to this guy, and he is sending a picture with his kid. So I replied, and told him so. I said that I am sure he was really nice, but that he should really rethink the picture thing...that I respected his search for someone, but to leave his kid out of it. He actually replied very nicely and thanked me for my input. That was that.

It was getting close to dinner time...I needed to start figuring out what to make. I checked email one more time, and in my inbox found one that had come in at 5:14 PM with the subject line saying YOU MIGHT BE JUST WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR. I opened it prepared to be disappointed, and instead was intrigued.

Hi,
My name is Steve. I am 3* years old, married, and have children. I am in a similar situation, my sex drive is much higher than my wife's. I am not looking for a new wife, just someone to help fill the sexual void in my life. I work alot, but my schedule is flexible. The idea of meeting up in a hotel sounds ideal, as long as it is discreet. I am not super kinky, bit I am adventurous in bed...
I look forward to hearing from you.
Steve

And so it began...I replied, telling him that he sounded great, and that I wanted to know more.

I live in a small town, I can tell you after I get to know you better. What about you? Where do you live?

I am a sensual person. I love giving and receiving full body massages, to tease and excite until we can't take it anymore. I love to perform oral, that is one of the areas lacking in my marriage. I love the taste, smell and feel of a woman and I love to have her writhe with pleasure from my tongue and mouth and fingers and........lol. As far as trying something new.....I can't think of much, just more of the things I do like and of course I am always game for trying something new for you. What about you? Do you have any fantasies or favorite things to do in bed?

Several emails were exchanged over the next hour...I think I decided to not cook and told the kids we would go get something in a bit. MOM OF THE YEAR AWARD, for sure.

After several emails within that hour, I deleted the Craigslist posting. If he wasn't the one, forget it. There were too many weirdos out there, and he seemed so nice. So real. So in the same situation.

I went to bed hopeful that night...not giddy, not excited. I was guarded. Very cautious.

Yet, very hopeful...